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#21230 - 06/13/11 02:01 PM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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You guys are going to start a war with the North and South side of Commack Crap just let it go. I am a former Board member of a Commack Little League and Past President and the crap has got to stop you are hurting the kids please I ask that you grow up and show some class.
No matter what anyone does in LL or travel or BBH, BOS, NJBL in the world of everybody does what I want or I complain you will never win and you will always have an issue with someone.
Heard a story that a team was going to sue a local organization that held a tournament yes I said SUE as in a leagal action becasue they got medals instead of trophies!
The crap must stop! When I was a kid we had one Williamport team from a town not ten. The LL isn't saying anything differnt to little Johny now then they did 20 years ago its just now Little Johny's dad and mom can't handle the truth so they sit on their computer and talk out their butts about why the system is wrong and their kid is the best and got screwed.
Not every kid is an Honor student, not every kid can play the piano and not every kid can hit a baseball but its still your kid and just love them for what they are good at and go with that. Parents take a long hard look at yourselves you are setting these kids up with a horrible skill set for the work place when they become adults. Part of life is failure and disappointment and so is summer vacation and ice cream.
Tell you a story had a team go all the way to a State Championship yes NYS state Championship game and we lost, we were far from home, it was hot and we had played eight hard solid weeks of ball. And then as quick as the last out it was over Wow that sucked.
The players, their parents, sibblings and coaches were all deeply upset, crying at the loss, yes even at the end of the world series adult players cry no harm, and then the host league President gathered all the players and said come over to the concession stand and he handed out free ice cream. In less then five minutes the players were running around with the players from the team that just beat them laughing and gorging themselves on as much ice cream as they could eat. I watched in amazement and took that lesson with me for the next ten years of coaching and have had a blast since. And have won a lot along with the attitude its only baseball guys.
As the boys get older Hooters replaces Carvel sorry moms the boys get older but the bottom line is they move on and so should these crazy parents its a game that should be played for fun and exercise not to increase family and community stress.
Just a thought I expect to be killed here for posting these comments but oh well, it just proves my point.
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#21250 - 06/13/11 04:27 PM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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You guys are going to start a war with the North and South side of Commack Crap just let it go. I am a former Board member of a Commack Little League and Past President and the crap has got to stop you are hurting the kids please I ask that you grow up and show some class.
No matter what anyone does in LL or travel or BBH, BOS, NJBL in the world of everybody does what I want or I complain you will never win and you will always have an issue with someone.
Heard a story that a team was going to sue a local organization that held a tournament yes I said SUE as in a leagal action becasue they got medals instead of trophies!
The crap must stop! When I was a kid we had one Williamport team from a town not ten. The LL isn't saying anything differnt to little Johny now then they did 20 years ago its just now Little Johny's dad and mom can't handle the truth so they sit on their computer and talk out their butts about why the system is wrong and their kid is the best and got screwed.
Not every kid is an Honor student, not every kid can play the piano and not every kid can hit a baseball but its still your kid and just love them for what they are good at and go with that. Parents take a long hard look at yourselves you are setting these kids up with a horrible skill set for the work place when they become adults. Part of life is failure and disappointment and so is summer vacation and ice cream.
Tell you a story had a team go all the way to a State Championship yes NYS state Championship game and we lost, we were far from home, it was hot and we had played eight hard solid weeks of ball. And then as quick as the last out it was over Wow that sucked.
The players, their parents, sibblings and coaches were all deeply upset, crying at the loss, yes even at the end of the world series adult players cry no harm, and then the host league President gathered all the players and said come over to the concession stand and he handed out free ice cream. In less then five minutes the players were running around with the players from the team that just beat them laughing and gorging themselves on as much ice cream as they could eat. I watched in amazement and took that lesson with me for the next ten years of coaching and have had a blast since. And have won a lot along with the attitude its only baseball guys.
As the boys get older Hooters replaces Carvel sorry moms the boys get older but the bottom line is they move on and so should these crazy parents its a game that should be played for fun and exercise not to increase family and community stress.
Just a thought I expect to be killed here for posting these comments but oh well, it just proves my point.
Great comment and great story! Sad to say only a few will get it. My boys all played baseball and it wasn't until the first one graduated HS and chose to stop playing ball that we realized how trivial the whole baseball part of life was. He moved on to a more serious part of life called a college education. The others still play for their HS and we've learned to have fun and stop sweating the samll stuff. The one or two kids that make baseball a career will get there because they deserve it, not because of what their parents do or say when they are young.
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#21376 - 06/17/11 03:16 PM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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Today (Friday, 6/17), I visited a Commack intermediate school for a parent participation school activity. While there, I met and chatted with a Little League board member. Having gone through years of the little league and "in-house travel" experiences, I confirmed what went on then is still going on. The common contaminants are parents positioning themselves as administrators and coaches to advance the playing interests of their children. Opportunities to pitch, exposure to sought-after field positions, higher placings in batting orders, selections to all-star teams and selections to travel teams, are filtered through a selfish bias. For the Commack resident that refuses to acknowledge this common truth, it's not about the end result of winning versus losing. We owe it to the kids to establish a fair process. And for those who find it uncomfortable to hear about the bad, sorry. Sunlight is the best disinfectant.
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#21449 - 06/20/11 07:07 AM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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Check this out. East Meadow wins the award for the most f'uped parents in history. They have nice fields down there, but from what i understand from my friends, there have been fist fights at monthly meetings, cops have been called many times, kids being kicked off travel teams because of their parents. Keep at look out in the news. From what I understand this is the tip of the iceberg..
An East Meadow woman was arrested Saturday for stalking and harassment after her son failed to make an East Meadow Little League travel team, according to third precinct officials.
According to police, on May 21, Janet Chiauzzi, 44, allegedy sent letters "of a threatening nature" to an East Meadow Little League official and his son. Police said the letter also made threats against the victim's wife and daughter.
On June 1, the principal of the school where the victim's children attended received a letter claiming the victim was abusing his kids, which Nassau County Child Protective Services investigated and "deemed unfounded," police said.
According to police, six additional letters were sent to the East Meadow Little League attempting to "defame the victim and force his removal as an official."
Chiauzza has been charged with two counts of second degree stalking, two counts of stalking in the third degree, two counts of third degree falsely reporting an incident, two counts of endangering the welfare of a child and four counts of second degree aggravated harassment. She will be arraigned in First District court in Hempstead on Sunday
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#21451 - 06/20/11 07:22 AM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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She led the league in bad parenting. A Long Island mom was busted for sending threatening letters to her son's baseball coach because he didn't make the team's travel squad, cops said Sunday. Janet Chiauzzi, 44, of East Meadow sent numerous letters to the coach threatening violence against his wife and 14-year-old daughter, Nassau County police said. She even sent a letter to the principal of the coach's children's school claiming he was molesting his kids, cops said. This led to an investigation by Nassau County Protective Services, which determined the allegations were bogus. Chiauzzi also sent six more letters to officials with the East Meadow Little League team trashing him and demanding he be fired, cops said. She was arrested Saturday night. Chiauzzi is charged with stalking, falsely reporting an incident, endangering the welfare of a child and aggravated harassment. A woman who answered a call at Chiauzzi's home declined comment before slamming the phone down. She will be arraigned on Monday, cops said.
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#21467 - 06/20/11 01:13 PM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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This womans husband is on the board of directors with the guy she threatened.  What a bunch of a$$ clowns Check this out. East Meadow wins the award for the most f'uped parents in history. They have nice fields down there, but from what i understand from my friends, there have been fist fights at monthly meetings, cops have been called many times, kids being kicked off travel teams because of their parents. Keep at look out in the news. From what I understand this is the tip of the iceberg..
An East Meadow woman was arrested Saturday for stalking and harassment after her son failed to make an East Meadow Little League travel team, according to third precinct officials.
According to police, on May 21, Janet Chiauzzi, 44, allegedy sent letters "of a threatening nature" to an East Meadow Little League official and his son. Police said the letter also made threats against the victim's wife and daughter.
On June 1, the principal of the school where the victim's children attended received a letter claiming the victim was abusing his kids, which Nassau County Child Protective Services investigated and "deemed unfounded," police said.
According to police, six additional letters were sent to the East Meadow Little League attempting to "defame the victim and force his removal as an official."
Chiauzza has been charged with two counts of second degree stalking, two counts of stalking in the third degree, two counts of third degree falsely reporting an incident, two counts of endangering the welfare of a child and four counts of second degree aggravated harassment. She will be arraigned in First District court in Hempstead on Sunday
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#21473 - 06/20/11 03:44 PM
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Check this out. East Meadow wins the award for the most f'uped parents in history. They have nice fields down there, but from what i understand from my friends, there have been fist fights at monthly meetings, cops have been called many times, kids being kicked off travel teams because of their parents. Keep at look out in the news. From what I understand this is the tip of the iceberg..
An East Meadow woman was arrested Saturday for stalking and harassment after her son failed to make an East Meadow Little League travel team, according to third precinct officials.
According to police, on May 21, Janet Chiauzzi, 44, allegedy sent letters "of a threatening nature" to an East Meadow Little League official and his son. Police said the letter also made threats against the victim's wife and daughter.
On June 1, the principal of the school where the victim's children attended received a letter claiming the victim was abusing his kids, which Nassau County Child Protective Services investigated and "deemed unfounded," police said.
According to police, six additional letters were sent to the East Meadow Little League attempting to "defame the victim and force his removal as an official."
Chiauzza has been charged with two counts of second degree stalking, two counts of stalking in the third degree, two counts of third degree falsely reporting an incident, two counts of endangering the welfare of a child and four counts of second degree aggravated harassment. She will be arraigned in First District court in Hempstead on Sunday
The Mudcats have finally found their team mom! Mudkitty Mickey already recruited the kid! Another great "signing"!
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#21625 - 06/23/11 02:52 PM
Re: ENOUGH -- Coach horror stories
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Check this out. East Meadow wins the award for the most f'uped parents in history. They have nice fields down there, but from what i understand from my friends, there have been fist fights at monthly meetings, cops have been called many times, kids being kicked off travel teams because of their parents. Keep at look out in the news. From what I understand this is the tip of the iceberg..
An East Meadow woman was arrested Saturday for stalking and harassment after her son failed to make an East Meadow Little League travel team, according to third precinct officials.
According to police, on May 21, Janet Chiauzzi, 44, allegedy sent letters "of a threatening nature" to an East Meadow Little League official and his son. Police said the letter also made threats against the victim's wife and daughter.
On June 1, the principal of the school where the victim's children attended received a letter claiming the victim was abusing his kids, which Nassau County Child Protective Services investigated and "deemed unfounded," police said.
According to police, six additional letters were sent to the East Meadow Little League attempting to "defame the victim and force his removal as an official."
Chiauzza has been charged with two counts of second degree stalking, two counts of stalking in the third degree, two counts of third degree falsely reporting an incident, two counts of endangering the welfare of a child and four counts of second degree aggravated harassment. She will be arraigned in First District court in Hempstead on Sunday
The Mudcats have finally found their team mom! Mudkitty Mickey already recruited the kid! Another great "signing"! YOU OBVIOUSLY KNOW MUDCAT MAN VERY WELL! GREAT POST #21473 AND THANKS FOR BRINGING CURRENT EVENTS INTO THE DISCUSSION.
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#21823 - 07/05/11 07:24 AM
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Commack North continues to lead by example....a bad example"
Commack North Little League last week banned a teen from playing in the league after his mother published a blog post on Patch criticizing the organization, according to the mother.
The blog, entitled "Calling A Foul on Commack North Little League," was published on Patch on June 24.
Not long after the posting, league President Michael Campione called blog author Loren Boiarsky and said her son would not be invited back next season, referencing the blog post, she said.
Campione refused multiple opportunities to comment at the instruction of the league attorney, he said.
In the post, Boiarsky speculated that certain board members might be "stacking" their teams during the league draft, to ensure that they get the strongest players.
Although she did not name anyone in the league or point to specific members of the board, several members took offense.
A flurry of heated comments quickly followed from league board members and their families, defending the league and criticizing Boiarsky.
Girls Junior/Senior Softball Commissioner Lane Fried, who returned to the post multiple times to defend the league, wrote the following. Although it was not addressed to Boiarsky, but a fellow commentor, it may explain why Boiarsky's son was banned form the league:
"Just to let you know If you are part of the CNLL you also know that your intention of bashing me and the little league through electronic media will not be tolerated. As we have copies of everything you wrote, as soon as we find out who you are you will be hearing from our league lawyer for violation of the ethics code you signed at the beginning of the season. And just for the record. Freedom of speech is right everyone enjoys but when you sign a document saying that you wont use electronic media to bash people and the little league in general, you give up that right to freedom of speech. You want to talk about my record, go right ahead you want to talk about that I am a terrible coach, personally I dont care what you think. I was responding to the Board members have to win at all costs comment by the lady who started this blog."
The parental Code of Conduct, found on the CNLL website, makes no mention of criticizing the league through electronic media or otherwise.
However, the league could ban any player if a parent did violate the ethics code Fried referred to.
"Little leagues are corporations. They may be nonprofit, but they have rules just like any other corporation," said corporate attorney Jeremy Poland, of Sysset-based Sobel Law Offices.
"It all depends what was on the agreement or contract for the little league. If those specific terms are outlined and a person signed it or agreed to it, they would be in violation of that agreement."
While the league would be within their legal right to ban Boiarsky's 14-year-old son had she broken the agreement, it's not clear if an agreement not to criticize the league electronically exists.
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#22591 - 08/07/11 11:09 PM
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Have playoffs started in NJBL? BOS starts Sunday. Would be fun to take the 2 winning teams of each organization and play a game. Who are the contenders?? BOS 13U playoffs...Playoffs started today in BOS top 8 teams faced off at the Moriches Complex. #1 seed LI Yankees. GAME 1 -- LI YANKEES 9, LI FALCONS 1. GAME 2 -- LI INFERNO 7, BANDITS GOLD 0. GAME 3 -- HITTERS CLUB 1, LI DUCKS ORANGE 0. GAME 4 -- SS BRONCOS 5, LI DUCKS GREEN 3. WINNERS BRACKET GAME 5 -- LI YANKEES 7, LI INFERNO 5. GAME 6 -- SS BRONCOS 2, HITTERS CLUB 1, 9 INNINGS. LOSERS BRACKET GAME 7 -- BANDITS GOLD 6, LI FALCONS 4. GAME 8 -- LI DUCKS GREEN 12, LI DUCKS ORANGE 2. Next games on Tuesday night, Championship game on Saturday at Ducks Stadium.
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#22604 - 08/08/11 12:01 PM
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Have playoffs started in NJBL? BOS starts Sunday. Would be fun to take the 2 winning teams of each organization and play a game. Who are the contenders?? BOS 13U playoffs...Playoffs started today in BOS top 8 teams faced off at the Moriches Complex. #1 seed LI Yankees. GAME 1 -- LI YANKEES 9, LI FALCONS 1. GAME 2 -- LI INFERNO 7, BANDITS GOLD 0. GAME 3 -- HITTERS CLUB 1, LI DUCKS ORANGE 0. GAME 4 -- SS BRONCOS 5, LI DUCKS GREEN 3. WINNERS BRACKET GAME 5 -- LI YANKEES 7, LI INFERNO 5. GAME 6 -- SS BRONCOS 2, HITTERS CLUB 1, 9 INNINGS. LOSERS BRACKET GAME 7 -- BANDITS GOLD 6, LI FALCONS 4. GAME 8 -- LI DUCKS GREEN 12, LI DUCKS ORANGE 2. Next games on Tuesday night, Championship game on Saturday at Ducks Stadium Ok thanks but that division is equal to the NJBL National division dont think anyone cares
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#22693 - 08/10/11 09:44 AM
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Have playoffs started in NJBL? BOS starts Sunday. Would be fun to take the 2 winning teams of each organization and play a game. Who are the contenders?? BOS 13U playoffs...Playoffs started today in BOS top 8 teams faced off at the Moriches Complex. #1 seed LI Yankees. GAME 1 -- LI YANKEES 9, LI FALCONS 1. GAME 2 -- LI INFERNO 7, BANDITS GOLD 0. GAME 3 -- HITTERS CLUB 1, LI DUCKS ORANGE 0. GAME 4 -- SS BRONCOS 5, LI DUCKS GREEN 3. WINNERS BRACKET GAME 5 -- LI YANKEES 7, LI INFERNO 5. GAME 6 -- SS BRONCOS 2, HITTERS CLUB 1, 9 INNINGS. LOSERS BRACKET GAME 7 -- BANDITS GOLD 6, LI FALCONS 4. GAME 8 -- LI DUCKS GREEN 12, LI DUCKS ORANGE 2. Next games on Tuesday night, Championship game on Saturday at Ducks Stadium Ok thanks but that division is equal to the NJBL National division dont think anyone cares Yeah okay...
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